Paying for Baby?

Christal and I have officially started fertility and we are both super excited.  But I still beg the question, how come so many people that don't want kids have them and give them away and we want one, but have to pay for it to happen??  It just makes me crazy!  Regardless, we are super stoked to move along with the hard work it takes to add on to our already awesome family.  I know with our luck, we'll end up with twins, but if it's god's plan, then I'll take it.  Christal always says "God doesn't ever give you more than you can handle."  I think the other ironic part of the whole thing is I went my first 26 years trying to prevent from having a child and being overly protective and super scared. Now, when we want to have one, no dice.  DAMN!  haha  Oh well, I'm still very excited and we will keep our fingers crossed that hopefully Christal will get pregnant on the first try!